The limit to number of vertices and indices is maximum value of integer (which is way above 45k).
Depending on the model format you're using (like dae, obj and other), loading huge model can takes lot of memory and cpu time (especially if you running on an android device). If you have converted in jmf, loading just be very fast on all platforms.
You can check the loading status of an AsyncModel with getLoadState or isLoaded/isLoading/isFailed.
If you think there's some problem with your model, send me to contact email (or a link where I can get it) and I'll give a look.
In the meantime, the only thing I can suggest would be to launch in debug and look for thread status,ortry to load it in the viewer.